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Marriage Licenses; Orange County & Los Angeles

Posted on 25 July, 2013 at 20:11 Comments comments (15)
 
 
Orange County, Los Angeles, Marriage License, Huntington Beach, Newport Beach, Santa Ana, Wedding, OfficiantHere is some useful information when deciding where, when, and how to obtain your Marriage License.  You will want to consider the following:
       Are you coming from out of state to Orange County or Los Angeles and/or is your wedding scheduled for a weekend? The county recorder’s office is only open Monday through Friday, so check for local business hours: (typically 8-4 M-F) 
 
 
 
        L. A. County http://www.lavote.net/clerk/Marriages.cfm
 
  Typically marriage licenses are issued to applicants on the spot.  A marriage license is generally valid for 90 days from the date of issuance. In most states, blood tests are not required. Applicants must be over 18 years of age.
 
   You should be prepared to:
 
  •      Appear together in person
 
  •      Present one form of valid indentification (some  type of government issued picture ID (driver’s license, passport, ect).
 
  •      Provide a certified copy of the Final Judgment of Divorce if divorce was final within the last 90 days ( I encourage all divorced couples to bring your filed copy of Entry of Judgment or Judgment document to be on the safe side).
 
      Fees vary from county to county, state to state so please check your local listings. The following is for Orange and Los Angeles Counties, CA:
 
 
  
    There are two types of Marriage Licenses and these are the general guidelines when making a decision which one you wish to consider and purchase:
 
     License of Marriage- a tradition license requires an officiate to sign it after performing the ceremony and up to two witnesses. (only one witness is required in the State of California, yet traditional two have been used). This marriage license once recorded becomes a public record which anyone can view.
 
      License of Confidential Marriage- only requires the officiate to sign it  after performing the ceremony no witnesses required.  This marriage license once recorded is not open for public viewing.
 
 
What is the difference between a Marriage License and a Marriage Certificate?
 
The marriage certificate is more of a keepsake.  You will receive an original of both the certified license and the marriage certificate. This can take anywhere from to two weeks to a month.  
 
You will need additional copies of the marriage license for the name change, first, with Social Security and then with the DMV.

Planning Your Wedding While Planning for the Future

Posted on 25 July, 2013 at 19:48 Comments comments (11)
 
Your wedding day should be special, with family and friends gathered to help you celebrate, the ceremony reflecting your love and the reception providing a perfect finale.

The last thing you want to be thinking as you walk down the aisle, or as youand your new spouse dance the first dance at the reception is "how will we pay for this?" The time to answer that question is well before the big day.

Setting a
budget for your wedding from the very beginning will make it easier to plan an eventthat is within your means. Because getting married is such an exciting time inyour life, without a budget in mind, it is easy to overspend.
 
Is the perfect weddingdress $1,000 more than you thought it would be? Without a budget, you could convince yourself that you deserve to spend that extra cash instead of continuing the search for a more affordable yet lovely dress.
 
Likewise, without a budget, you might give in to your new in-laws' request to invite distant relatives andtheir children to the reception. Instead, you can simply say, "I'd love to, but our budget limits us to a small guest list."

To establish a budget, first figure out who is paying for what. Will either set of parents be pitching in, or will you and your future spouse be paying for theentire wedding? Then, come up with a dollar amount that is realistic based one veryone's contributions. On average, U.S. couples will spend $26,800 for their wedding - and that does not include the cost of the honeymoon, engagement ring,bridal consultant or wedding planner. The
reception is the single largest expense.

Of course, there are many ways to trim costs; you just have to decide where you are willing to compromise. Can your mother help with the
planning so you don'thave to pay a wedding planner? Is it really necessary to have an open bar at the reception? Do you really need a limo to drive you to the ceremony or can you get your rich uncle to drive you in his Mercedes?

"If you decide that you won't have enough money to pay for the wedding incash, or that your honeymoon must include a trip to Paris, you may have to get a loan or use your credit cards.
 
As long as you have a plan for paying off these large expenses, that's O.K.," says Maxine Sweet, vice president of public education for Experian, a global information solutions company. If you do decide to use credit, she suggests checking your creditreport before hand to make sure that you'll qualify for the credit when you need it.

If you and your spouse are paying for the wedding yourselves, another good incentive to stay on budget is the fact that you'll have other expenses once you're married. You may want to buy a house in the near future, or perhaps one of your cars is on its last legs. "You don't want to have a lot of debt from a wedding  if you plan on making a big purchase in the near future,"says Sweet. "Lenders review your credit report and credit score as part of the lending process and if they see that you are in debt close to your creditl imit, they may not extend you the funds needed for a new car or home."

Of course, planning your wedding and your future together isn't all about dollars and cents, but getting these matters out in the open can make for smoother sailing as you start your lives together.
 
 
 
About the Author...
For more information on checking your credit report, visit www.Experian.com.

Courtesy of ARA Content
 

Wedding Music-Streefree, Spectacular, Affordable

Posted on 4 June, 2013 at 1:27 Comments comments (10)
 
What makes a wedding? The right music.
 
Music creates emotion; especiallyat weddings. Music (words and sounds) inspires more feeling, memories, andsentiment than any other expression. Everyone has, at some time, felt euphoricjoy or been moved to tears by certain songs. However music, along with food andother arrangements can be costly. The question is, then, how do you includemusic (and enhance feelings and memories) without stressing, and breaking the bank? Hint: smaller weddings, and combination wedding/music packages.
 
Wedding trends
 
A new trend in toward smaller, economical weddings is emerging. Why? The majority of people are waiting longer before tying the knot mostly for career and economic reasons. [1]The average age of a bride in the US now is 25.3 (27 for the Groom). Also, one-thirdof those getting married each year have been married before and therefore have already experienced large lavish weddings. What this translates to is a growing trend toward small to mid-sized affordable weddings that, yet, don’t skimp on service and quality.
 
           
THE NEW MOVEMENT: a solo musician/vocalist
 
Other way to save money is to make appropriate music choices.Traditionally, there have been only two options for music: a live band or a DJ.Either of these can be appropriate depending on the type of event you are planning. Additionally, many high-end weddings use separate musicians for the ceremony,post-ceremony cocktails, and dinner/dance reception.The total costs for music alone (DJ or Musicians) can exceed $4800. Why not have a single music resource for all of theseevent essentials?
 
Technology now allows a solo musician-vocalist to reproduce the sound and quality of a full band with the use of studio backing tracks (video). And, some professional soloists can also provide “Lite DJ” services for people who want awide selection of dinner & dance music without the thumping volume, fogl ighting, and conga-train dancing usually required at younger first-timeweddings.
 
Advantages
 
There are several benefits when opting for a solo musician/vocalist:
 
Less stress: You can work directly with one professional –communication and planning are easier
 
Logistics: music selection can be planned for the Ceremony (guest arrival, processional & recessional songs), cocktail reception, anddinner/dance or any combination. Sound systems and microphones can be easily moved or pre-positioned prior to the event.
 
Affordable: working with a professional soloist can save thousands in music expenses. For example, the cost for a ceremony, cocktail dinner, and dinner reception, can be under $1000.
 
How to save $$$
 
The average cost of a wedding used to be $20-30K. However, with the awful economy,everyone is looking for ways to save money while still creating their once-in-a-lifetime wedding experience. All this means that people are budgeting more, planning carefully, and, in many cases, opting for small to mid-sizeguest lists and facilities that offer ceremony/reception packages for theirwedding. The Advantages are many:
 
·      Smaller events require less work and less stress, the savings in lower “plate-counts”can be applied to other areas, e.g., to enhance food and beverage options
 
·      Music costs and arrangements can be made more efficient and easier (see below)
 
·      Fewer guestsallow for the marriage couple to choose popular ceremony/reception combination facilities where the ceremony and reception take place in one area.
 
For example, my own wedding was held at a lovely outdoor patio area at a country club. We had the ceremony and reception in the same place. Our guests didn’t have to take a single step to relocate or gather their things to another area.  We saved thousands while everyone relaxed and enjoyed the event. 
 
There’s no place like home
 
Another popular option is tohave the entire event at home (or at your friend’s house with the beautiful view of the ocean). I personally have performed at dozen’s of house-party events where catering, officiants (ministers), music, etc. are conveniently arranged and casually enjoyed.
 
Why should a loving couple be denied a wonderful event due to economic conditions? 
      
Economic conditions
 
Let’s face it. Weddings canbe expensive. Many people just don’t have a huge budget these days for such anevent. Worse yet, some start out their lives together by going into a financial hole because they feel they have to have extravagance for their family andfriends. Why should a loving couple be denied a wonderful event due to economic conditions?
 
Article submitted by DonCovel, owner of Don Covel Entertainment serving Orange County for over 20years. His warm guitar and smooth vocals are often compared to James Taylor. He also provides wedding music planning assistance including popular Lite DJservices for small to mid-sized weddings. Consider the above guidelines whenchoosing musical entertainment.
 
“As a guitar/vocal soloist musician, I provide my clients with a combination of classic rock and smooth jazz that is very popularat Orange County venues. All of this is enhanced with a full sound system and backing-track production. You are free to contact me personally for more music ideas at NO COST or OBLIGATION.”
 
Musically yours,
Don Covel
Info: 949-855-6581

www.DC-Entertainment.com
 
Technology now allows a solo musician-vocalist to reproduce the sound and quality of a full band…
[1]http://www.soundvision.com/info/weddings/statistics.asp,  US CensusBureau http://www.census.gov/Press-Release/www/2003/cb03ff02.html
 

How a Wedding Professional Can Save You Money

Posted on 27 April, 2013 at 20:16 Comments comments (12)
 
How a Wedding Professional Can Save You Money
 
 In the current economy wedding couple’s budgets are gone over with a fine tooth comb. More and more brides are finding themselves doing all the planning, searching for vendors and negotiating in the hopes of staying within budget and saving money.
 
 
With all the information today on the internet it is true they can find many services and extras at bargain basement prices especially if they can plan for an off season event (traditionally weddings are held here onthe West Coast area April through September with June through September the busiest wedding season for vendors).
 
Yet let me pose some questions that may be often overlooked, what is your time worth, what is your peace of mine worth and how canan expert actually save me money? 
 
Your time is worth money right; here you spend your time efficiently with professionals who can share the most current wedding dresschoices based on your dream and body style. From the dress to the accessorythese professionals assist you every step of the way.  
 
These professionals come with their little (big) black notebooks full of vendors and ideas, saving you time and money (remembering your time has a price too) with referrals and recommendations of tried "other wedding and event specialist", now at your finger tips. 
 
Planners will take an assertive part yet gently guide you in understanding how your special day can become the beautiful reality from the best venue pricing to estimating guest count all the while keeping your budget in mind every step of the way. 
 
They offer Full Service plans which are perfect for the clientwith a fabulous vision, yet has a busy schedule that will not allow all the desired details to be handled without some assistance.  
 
Day of  The Wedding Coordination plan, for the bride “who has already planned the perfect event and would like to simply enjoy themselves having assurance that their plans and details will be carried out.” 
 
For the bride who needs “A La Carte” services which again can also save you time and money in helping you to stay within your budget.These services can be picked from variety of task at an hourly rate.  
 
In closing, quoted by Alison Tomko from Alison ElizabethEvents, “Whether you would like a “little or “a lot” of help with your plans we are committed to helping make your “dream day” a reality.” 
 
Event Coordinator's sites for your convenience: 
 
 
 
 
 

Wedding Shower Elegant yet Affordable

Posted on 14 April, 2013 at 20:10 Comments comments (211)
Yes, the Wedding Shower Season is upon us, especially if your Bride/ Couple have a late spring, early summer wedding coming up. You, as a dear friend and/ or family member want and may feel responsible to hold a wonderful, lovely shower with Guest, Fun, Gifts, Elegant yet Affordable.
 
It use to take a lot more imagination and finances to pull off the most memorable shower your Bride/Couple will want to remember. Yet, in this day and age and by the grace of the internet, today there are so many great ideas out there to  help create that memorable day. Remember, utilizing these tips and tricks, along with delegating to others, who often would love to help with a piece of the shower yet don't have the time to pull the whole event off themselves (even if it is to borrow something they have that you need for this day) can be the difference of enjoying this journey or resenting it (counting the days till it's over).
 
From a small and intimate gathering to a larger one. With some good planning initially this day can even be enjoyable for you.
 
 
Below you will find some great short articles to assist you with the special day:
 
 
 
 
How to throw a fiesta to remember—and keep your wallet intact
By Marisa Klein|
 
 
 
The Frugal Girls Blog
Heidi and Others
 
 
Written for Costco by Sharon Naylor
 
By Jacqueline Curtis

Wedding Ceremony 101

Posted on 20 March, 2013 at 14:13 Comments comments (10)
 
Wedding Ceremony 101
I do today and forever more…
 
Couples are surprised to find there is no mandatory design for a wedding ceremony.  Ceremonies can be traditional or as unique as each couple; it’s your day – you can have it your way.
 
 
Although there are a few standard lines an officiant needs to incorporate into your ceremony, for the most part it is all about your sonnet from one heart to another.  If you want a ceremony created especially for you, make sure to choose an officiant who acts as guide and co-creator, rather than a director.
 
 
Frequently Asked Questions
 
What are some of the most important things to consider in creating your wedding ceremony? The questions we hear most often are: 
 
How long is the ceremony? Typically 15-30 minutes. 
 
Do you write the vows or do we? We can, yet normally we co-create with the couple giving them samples and choices to help with their decisions. 
 
Can we use our own vows and readings? Yes. 
 
Do I need to remember anything? Basically, the answer is “no” unless you wish to. We understand you will be tired and nervous all at once when you finally get to the ceremony part of your celebration. Normally the officiant will feed you your lines and please remember look at each other when saying the vows, not at the officiant.  
 
Can a friend or family member do a song or reading? Yes, we encourage involving anyone you wish to make this day special for you and your guests. 
 
Do we have to be solemn or can we be light and funny? It’s your day - have it your way. If you want it light and funny, make sure you pick an officiant who can deliver this for you. 
 
Can we use contemporary readings or are religious orscriptural readings required? When itcomes to vows and readings there is not one requirement. Be as creative as you like. 
 
We just want a simple ceremony. We have learned that “simple” is in the eye of the beholder. Simple to one person is 10 minutes of I do’s and you may kiss the bride. To others it’s more about keeping the ceremony light and not too heavy on the religious side.
 
 
A Typical Ceremony
 
 
To give you an idea of how a ceremony might be structured, here is the one of the most common ceremony templates used: 
 
Opening Words of the Officiant: This is where we welcome your family and guests.

TheGiving in Marriage: (Optional)The father or family member gives the bride away.

An Opening Prayer or Reading: Nice place to have a guest or family member do a favorite reading of the couple’s choice.  The officiant is also more than happy to recite your choice of reading or opening scripture.
 

Definitionof Marriage: (Optional) The officiant can define the marriage withyour choice of words.

Wedding Vows: Traditional, non-traditional,religious. This is the first time you will recite a piece to each other with the assistance of your officiant feeding the lines to both of you.

SecondReading or Song: (Optional) Very commonly a guest or family member reads or sings a song.

Exchangeof Rings:  You will choose a ring exchange vow that suits your heart.

Closing:(Sometimes called a Benediction) Usually the officiant recites your closing thoughts to the family and guests.

DeclarationOf Marriage: "By the power vested in me by the State of _______, I now pronounce you____________” and the best part for last, “you may now kiss the bride or life partner.”

Introductionof Newlyweds: The officiant usually introduces the newlyweds by the married names you are taking. 
 
Other Bits of Wisdom 
 
You have worked hard atmaking this the most memorable day of your life for you and your guests.  Please make sure that they can hear your ceremony. Your DJ or venue will normally have a wireless mic that theofficiant can use or a microphone that can be set up. Your guests and loved ones really do want to hear your vows and this allows them to be part of your special celebration, the first day of your married life.
 
 
Make sure if there are any special announcements you wish the officiant to make that you let them know before the ceremony. They can announce this after you and your wedding party leave the staged area.
 
 
There are many free and paid sites on the internet these days that have samples of wedding ceremonies. Yourofficiant will also be able to give you sample ceremonies they have already performed, or samples of vows and readings. Make sure the ceremony is a truereflection of the both of you. It’s your very special day…forever more.
 
 
 
October 2008 revised and printed 2013
 

Etiquette on Asking for Money vs. Gifts

Posted on 29 January, 2013 at 16:55 Comments comments (16)
Asking for money vs. a tangiable gift is still a sensitive subject, yet in these economic times it could very well be the most helpful way for the newlyweds to obtain what they really need. Elimating the dreaded task of returning gifts in duplicate and/or gifts that are not really needed in this season of their new lives together.
 
Below are some well written articles or advise on how to approach this subject with wedding guest and family memebers.
 
 
 
 

Wedding Ceremony 101

Posted on 23 January, 2013 at 15:28 Comments comments (12)
 
Wedding Ceremony 101
I do today and forever more.. 
 
Wedding ceremonies can be traditional or as unique as each couple. If you want a ceremony created especially for you, make sure you choose an officiant who acts as a guide and co-creator, rather then a director.
 
 
There is no specific way or design that has to be done within your ceremony. There are just few standard lines the officiant needs to incorporate into your ceremony (we will address them later in this article) yet for the most part it is all about your sonnet from one heart to the other.
 
 
Frequently Asked Questions
 
 
What are some of the most important things to consider in creating your wedding ceremony? The questions we hear most often are:
 
 
How long is the ceremony? Typically 15-30 minutes.
 
 
Do you write the vows or do we? We can yet normally we co-create with the couple giving them samples and choices to help with their decisions
 
 
Can we use our own vows and readings? Yes.
 
 
Do I need to remember anything? We understand you will be tired and nervous all at once when you finally get to the ceremony part of your celebration. Basically the answer is no, unless you wish to. Normally the officiant will feed you your lines and, remember, look at each other when saying the vows not the officiant.
 
 
Can a friend or family member do a song or reading? Yes, we encourage involving anyone you wish to make this day special for you and your guest.
 
 
Do we have to be solemn or can we be light and funny? Its your day have it your way. If you want it light and funny, make sure you pick an officiant that can to deliver this for you.
 
 
Can we use contemporary readings or are religious or scriptural readings required? When it comes to vows and readings there is not one requirement. Be as creative as you like.
 
 
We just want a simple ceremony. We have learned that “simple” is in the eye of the beholder. Simple to one person is 10 minutes of I do’s and you may kiss the bride. To others it’s more about keeping the ceremony light and not too heavy on the spiritual side.
 
 
A Typical Ceremony
 
To give you an idea of how a ceremony might be structured, here is the one of the most common ceremony templates used:
 
 
Opening Words of the Officiant: This is where we welcome your family and guests

The Giving in Marriage: (Optional) The father or family member gives the bride away

An Opening Prayer or Reading: Nice place to have a guest or family member do a favorite reading of the couples choice.  The officiant is also more than happy to recite your choice of reading or opening scripture.

Definition of Marriage: (Optional) The officiant can define the marriage with your choice of words.

Wedding Vows: Traditional, non-traditional, religious. This is the first time you will recite a piece to each other with the assistance of your officiant feeding the lines to both of you.

Second Reading or Song: (Optional) Very commonly a guest or family member reads or sings a song.

Exchange of Rings:  You will choose a ring exchange vow that suits your heart

Closing: (Sometimes called a Benediction.) Usually the officiant recites your closing thoughts to the family and guests.

Declaration Of Marriage: "By the power vested in me by the State of _______, I now pronounce you ____________” and the best part for last, “you may now kiss the bride or life partner.”

Introduction of Newlyweds: The officiant usually introduces the newlyweds by the married names you are taking.
 
 
Other Bits of Wisdom
 
 
You have worked hard at making this the most memorable day of your life for you and your guests.  Please make sure that they can hear your ceremony. Your DJ or venue will normally have a wireless mike that the officiant can use or a microphone that can be set up. Your guests and loved ones really do want to hear your vows and this allows them to really be part of your special celebration, the first day of your married life.
 
 
Make sure if there are any special announcements you wish the officiant to make that you let them know before the ceremony. They can announce this after you and your wedding party leaves the staged area.
 
 
There are many free and paid sites on the internet these days that have samples of wedding ceremonies. Make sure the ceremony is a true reflection of the both of you. Your officiant will also be able to give you sample ceremonies they have already performed, or samples of vows and readings. It’s your very special day, forever more.
 
 

Cupcake or not to Cupcake this Is the Question?

Posted on 22 January, 2013 at 7:56 Comments comments (16)
Gone is the day where 2,3,4 and more multiple tiered wedding cakes are your only solutions to the wedding day celebration cake.

This last year alone I've witnessed many couples opting for cupcakes vs. cakes. Green ones, Yellow ones, Red Velvet to White cake. Cupcakes with roses, shells, m&ms...and puppy dog tales (well maybe not puppy dog tales, please this is your day and it needs to be your way!)

Below are some great Wedding Day Cupcake (or everyday cupcake) recipes, display and serving ideas to seriously consider.

Remember cupcakes can be made by friends and/or family members along with a creative display to achieve a professional look. Many professional bakeries today do offer cupcakes for weddings. Cupcakes can range from traditional cupcake to bit size.

Cupcakes are an excellent addition to your elegant, unique and affordable wedding day ideas verse the traditional wedding day cake.

Cupcake Recipes.com

Wedding Cupcake Stands

Tomgirl Baking Company (local here to Huntington Beach)

Cupcake Blog this site has a lot of nice visuals to help you with ideas regarding displaying your cupcakes.

Love to Know Pictures of Wedding Cupcakes (nice ideas)

Cupcake Takes the Cake Blog

Before the Wedding and Honeymoon--It's Time to Discuss Your Credit Image

Posted on 3 October, 2012 at 13:45 Comments comments (685)
 
I" to "We”
 
Marriage shifts the focus from “I” to “We” in many ways.  One of the most significant areas for couples to understand is the impact their marriage will have on their credit image.
 
Up to this point, you may have been managing your finances separately.  With your marriage coming up, the credit “talk” should happen sooner rather than later.  It has been studied, quoted and written about for years how important communication about finances is to a successful marriage.  Many newlyweds hit the proverbial brick wall once all the dust settles after the wedding and honeymoon.  Credit education prior to marriage will help prevent unpleasant surprises.
 
The Credit Crunch
 
With the recent economy leaning towards tighter credit, more emphasis will be placed on credit scores and your credit image.  Understanding credit is more important than ever.  Your credit image is a snapshot (like a photograph) of your credit worthiness at a fixed moment in time.  A credit image is how you look to others who are making decisions about you.  This image determines what interest rates you are offered, and affects many other decisions made by lenders, landlords, employers and insurance brokers.
 
Whether this is your first marriage or not, you probably have some sort of credit profile with all three credit reporting agencies.  And knowing how to build a strong credit profile, score and image will give you a financial edge in your future together as husband and wife.  If you set aside some time to openly discuss this issue as a couple, it will save you many future misunderstandings.  You can also begin working as “We” by deciding how to share the tasks involved in building an enhanced credit image.
 
Find Out Where You Stand
 
First and foremost, go to www.annualcreditreports.com and retrieve your free credit reports from each of the three major credit reporting agencies.  There is no cost to pull your reports from this site once a year.  Once you have all three reports (total of six for a couple), comb all the information on these profiles to make sure the information reported is true and correct.  70% of all reports have some inaccuracy in them.  If there are any inconsistencies or inaccurate information being reported, this is the time to dispute it.
 
You may also want to purchase your credit score.  Currently, the FICO score is the most widely used score; however, it makes the most sense to do your research first to know where you both stand and whether corrections need to be made in your credit reports.
 
Good Score/Bad Score
 
Maybe one of the “I’s” in this relationship has had some bumps in the road regarding their credit profile and the other “I” may have better credit standing.  One suggestion is that you add your spouse (once married) to one of your credit cards as an authorized or joint user.  If you do this, make sure the credit card company reports this credit history to each of your social security numbers.  Over time, the spouse with non-existent or poor credit can establish or re-establish a good standing credit profile.  Since the most recent 18-24 months of history weighs heavily on credit risk considerations, it won’t take long to begin to see improvements in the lower score.
 
There’s Strength in Numbers
 
Prior to marriage, you probably have operated as “I’s” in your credit lines, payment history, and credit scores.  If you have good standing credit lines, continue to maintain them separately.  Over time, you will most likely make a major purchase like a home or automobile that may require you to go into a contract jointly.  At this point, each of your credit scores will affect your joint credit and two high scores are definitely better than one.
 
A Final Thought
 
Another topic to consider is name change.  If you are deciding to change your name, remember to start with the Social Security Office and then the DMV.  Next, you may consider reporting your name change to your creditors.  This will not obligate your spouse for any contracts you entered into previous to the marriage, as long as neither one of you entered into the contract as “We” before marriage.
There are many changes when two “I’s” become “We.”  Start now to practice working together so that these changes work for, rather than against, your marriage and long-term future.
 
© October 2008 reprinted 2012
 

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